Road to Gyaru

   Hey lovely's today I am going to be talking about what I think of Gyaru secrets. Well for most of you reading this you  probably know about Gyaru secrets, if not here is a fast description. It is a site where some Western Gyaru bash on other Gyaru. I think it was actually made for people to get help and such but people made it into a bashing place with people taking random photos of different Gyaru and then tearing them to shreds. I have actually heard a lot of Gals talk about how when they first heard about this site it scared them to put any Gyaru pictures out because they believed it would end up on Gyaru Secrets.

   Well let me tell you my opinion unlike a lot of people no I am not scared of my pictures going on the site because no matter how I look I am enjoying attempting/doing my style. But not everyone is like that, and we should all be celebrating that we all love Japanese culture and the Gyaru culture enough to bring it back to our own countries with us. No matter what, we all have love for the same thing so why not unite instead of hate, maybe if we did that eventually we would be able to get more of our fashion out here. I understand healthy criticism and advice but when your commenting on someone weight or are too harsh that's just not OK that turns into bullying. We should all bond because we already know the looks and the bullying we get doing this style in our own countries why go back and bully someone who is trying to do what they love. Every women and man are beautiful in their own ways and deserve to do what they love and not get bashed for it. 

  For all you people getting bullied you have to stay strong and confident and they will not phase you. So what if someone took their time to write a bunch of bull about you on Gyaru secrets as long as your confident with how you look and who you are then you have nothing to worry about. Letting them phase you is just going to get them to win and the most important NEVER GIVE UP!! There has been times when I wanted to give up not on just style but on life in general, I did things in the
past I regret. Now I see why because I had no confidence in myself.



  This is not only for Gyaru Secrets but for bullying in general. I went through a time when I was causing myself harm because the bullying and the lack of confidence made me feel so insignificant. This is actually my first time telling anyone about my self harm besides my close family. I just want to help someone like I know some people helped me. I have not caused myself harm for a good 1 1/2 years now and I am still staying strong. Self harm is the worst way to go because you fall into depression and even if you are surrounded by people who love you, you still feel  alone. This is because your not happy with yourself and before you can get to normal again you have to build confidence in yourself. After I realized this it took me a good year to start growing confidence and I feel like I have come extremely far in the past couple months. I feel as if now I am able to sit through people putting me down and not feel bad about myself at all. I know I still got a while to go before I become my normal self again but hey I am making amazing progress.

  So don't ever feel alone if you getting bullied or if you lack confidence there will always be at least one person out there that cares about you even if you know them or not. I am also here for anyone who would like to talk. I am a very good listener and would love to help anyone who needs it. Even if you feel like there is no one